Do you remember when you met gorgeous smart beautiful funny and loving girl that you would love to go out with and ask her our? but you think she is way out of your league? if you still considering her then read our guide on how to impress a girl and follow our steps to be able to reach your goal and impress a girl you always thought she will never go out with you?

first you should ask your self the following questions

1. In general what do girls look for in guys

Remember that there are no "ideal" guy that the girls look for..This is a common mistake that guys fall for and it ruins there chances when they try to impress a girl and use the "ideal guy" method, We all think that women will fall for a guy with muscles and a good looking smile, some girls are naturally attracted to such guys and many others are not, don't get me wrong! it doesn't mean if you do not have muscles then those type of girls won't be impressed when you try to ask them out, this is totally wrong..women and girls go by their emotions which is a big advantage for a guy, even if you are a nerd you can go out with the most beautiful women but you have to use the right tactics BUT you have to consider few things and take them seriously if you want to succeed and reach your goal

* First you should be an attractive guy, by attractive I don't mean the way you look.. you need to build a character and have a strong opinion that will impress a girl or attract women. Make sure you dress up as a gentle man, walk like a gentleman and interact with males as you interact with females, always treat the woman infront of you as she was a "man", she will notice that you are not talking to her because how she looks like and you are just initiating a conversation, always make sure to have a sense of humor and by saying a sense of humor I don't mean keep telling jokes the whole conversation, always use the dry sense of humor, in the conversation try to make fun of something related to what you and her are talking about, remember that if you make her laugh that means she is having a good time which is what she is looking for, women do not need boring guys!

Make sure to take care of your hygiene because girls do not like guys who are "smelly" or "dirty" this is the truth! would you go out with a girl that doesn't take a shower or she smells? NO! always make sure to have trimmed nails and nobody or mouth odor which is a completely turn off, when it comes to shaving each person has his own preference, I would say keep your beard trimmed ( Doesn't have to be completely shaved ) but clean

* To impress a girl you need to act like a real man

Girls do not like childish guys, even if you are talking about a short term relationship or even a long term relationship, women or girls chose a man who can provide the basics they are looking for and can take care of them, they don't want a man who will live of their money even if he is the best looking guy, to them this is not even a man, she doesn't want to take care of you, she wants somebody to take care of her, girls like a man with a job since this shows that he is a serious man and not a jobless guy who doesn't care, even if you don't have a job but you do go to a college or university then that is enough as you need to show them that have dreams and ambitions, you are motivated! which will lead her to think that you take life seriously and will treat her like she is your queen

always make sure to talk about your future and how you see things in the future

*Try to talk about your friends

Women and girls look at your friends as your reflection, the type of friends you have will let her discover your personality

if you have silly friend then its not a good idea to talk about them alot in the first few dates!

*Pay on your first date, lunch, coffee

For the first few dates or hangouts try to pay, even if she insisted that she will pay tell her she can pay the next time, women will always say they are complete and do not need men but they judge on small things

its like when you enter a restaurant and fix the chair for her to sit, she will appreciate that big time and see you as a real man

not like the jerk before who didn't care about her, when I say pay for the first few times I don't mean by paying for everything and spend all your money on her, there is a limit and you should be able to make a judgment

*Show her that you are a confident man

Women like a confident guy that they can depend on, they don't want a guy who is lost and do not know whats going on and they cannot depend on him! try to make her feel that she can depend on you and show her that you know alot of subjects like politics, sports and economics

always be funny in a nice way and do not over tell jokes, always act in a normal way and do not think or stress out alot

women do not like confused guys, they want a guy who can lead

When you see her always try to come up with an interesting subject that she might be also interested in

or ask her about her things and how is she doing at work or school, you need to break the ice and initiate a friends chit chat, you have to take the lead at that point which shows that you have alot of confidence

*Give her a compliment

Once you get to know her then you can give her a small compliment that will impress her and get a girl like that to like you and be interested in you

* Always show her that you are interested in her life or subjects

Girls in common will be impressed by a man who is interested in their things, try to memorize what she said last time and open a subject related to that or on her facebook look at her interests and relate a subject to that once you see her next time

* Never look at something else when you are talking to her

If you do not maintain eye contact then that shows a lack of confidence but once you can maintain the eye contact then she will feel your confidence and your interest in her

* Care

Show her that you care about her and its not about you or about you being with her, ask about her family/friends/pets..etc

*Try to take her out with your friends

Try to show her that you want her to be engaged with your life style and want her to meet your friends, this is a strong indication that you are interested in her and want her to be a part of your life

These are the main things that will make a girl interested in you

Things you shouldn't mention or do

1) Do not talk about your ex or past relationships or brag about how many girls you went out with, this will be a huge turn off, this is not the time to talk about such subjects

2) Try not to be touchy at the first few dates as this is an indication that you want her only for a short term relationship

3) Never lie, if you lie now then you might get caught after and this will ruin your whole relationship that you always wanted

4) Do not complement her every 5 seconds because there are 100 guys doing that, you don't want to be added to that list right?